You
Are The Greatest Teacher
Ron Hevener
Author, "The Blue Ribbon" and "Fate of the Stallion"
| Reprinted
with permission. Artist/Author Ron Hevener owns one of the
oldest kennels in the United States ("Lochranza").
His novels include "The Blue Ribbon" and "Fate
of The Stallion." His collectible figurines and watercolor
prints are sought at dog shows everywhere. For more information,
go to www.ronhevener.com |
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"YOU
ARE THE GREATEST TEACHER"
Having a kennel
and loving dogs, I'm lucky enough to meet a lot of people they
are important to; people from all walks of life. Today, the dogs
we love and care for have a great affect on how we look at the
world around us. Dogs are in the news, in movies, books, and all
kinds of advertisements. What is their appeal? We know the answer
to that. Dogs appeal to every sense we have, from visual to touch,
and the magical result is the most powerful appeal of all - emotional.
Forget about
the evolutionary history of dogs and worrying about how they may
have come into being. Forget about making television documentaries
about which breed was the "Original Dog" and traveling
to exotic places to find the last remaining members of that breed
on Earth. That's all grand in a National Geographic kind of way,
but the truth is lost in so many forgotten memories that it doesn't
matter to the dog in your life right now. What matters is the
diversity of this species, and the possibility that there was
no single original breed.
Do I believe
in spontaneous genetics and things like that? Oh, yes; very much
so. I also believe the emotional make-up of a living creature,
and its mentality, are affected by its physical appearance. But,
that could be my years of dog shows, raising just about every
breed of dog there is at one time or another, or the artist in
me speaking.
We all know our own personalities can rub off on our dogs. We
know dogs are different from cats or birds or horses and other
animals in their basic nature. Along those lines, customers at
our kennel often ask which puppy in a litter is the ruler, which
is the most loving or which is the most playful. Sometimes, when
looking at a puppy by itself and searching for an emotional connection
with this prospective fur-child, customers will ask if I think
the pup will turn out this way or that. When I say it depends
on them more than anything else, they are often surprised. "The
dog is going to learn from you", I say. "You are the
greatest teacher."
Here at our
kennels, sometimes we raise whole litters together and we have
a graduation system, like in school. Littermates start out together,
but as they become more dominant, or according to their growth
and the special feeding they may require along the way, they move
up the ladder into the next run. They haven't lost sight of their
littermates because they are in the next kennel run beside them.
And the new kennel mates aren't strangers either because they've
been housed next to each other for a while. The result is, our
litters don't have just one dominant pup with a bunch of followers.
Instead, what we have is a bunch of confident, independent thinkers.
When I say,
"You are the greatest teacher", I'm not speaking about
rigid discipline such as one endures in Obedience classes. Maybe
"rigid" isn't the right word for that, but I think it
illustrates the difference between fundamental training and the
invisible "something" beyond that which develops between
you and your dog just by traveling the same path in life. In my
novel "Fate of the Stallion" this mysterious bond is
expressed in a scene where Dan Marshall senses the presence of
an Arabian stallion running along the river beside him. The horse
seems to be calling him, as if saying "Find me! I am yours!"
and the story reveals the parallels of their lives, showing how
man and stallion share the same fate. Likewise, in "The Blue
Ribbon" a novel set in the competitive world of dog shows,
there is a scene called "Miles To Go" In this scene,
Robert Sheffield, a dog show judge loved by two different women
who own rival kennels, is hiking in the Canadian woods with his
dog, reflecting on love. If you'll notice, the path in the woods
symbolizes Robert's own path in life, and his dog is right there
beside him. Like many of us do, Robert is thinking to his dog
in a mental conversation, wondering if he has made the right decision
by letting the woman he really loves slip through his fingers.
Among the trees, the dog sees a deer, runs after it, but, of course,
the deer gets away. "She got away?" Robert asks. "It's
OK, fella. We've got miles to go." In those miles, will there
be other deer? Will they see the same deer again? I wasn't sure
when I wrote that scene how it would turn out.
Dogs have an
emotional appeal that covers our widest range of feeling. In my
writing, whether about dogs or horses, the stories often deal
with keeping our sense of love alive. Over and over again, at
book signings and lectures, I am asked "What does keeping
love alive matter to a man like you, who has everything he could
possibly want and more than he can handle?" I guess my reputation
for playfulness has something to do with that. Surely, someone
like me doesn't have a care in the world! I say this with tongue
in cheek, of course. Married at nineteen, a father soon after
that and selling my artwork as souvenirs to tourists, you could
say I've been around the block a few times. In fact, I'd say I've
been around the block and all over the neighborhood! I've met
many people in that neighborhood and I've come to believe our
ability to love is eroded by the rotten things that happen to
us. It is also nurtured by anything that makes us feel good and
important.
As an artist,
my studio has been committed to uplifting, encouraging work such
as the Hevener figurines and paintings for over thirty years now.
Very few animal lovers are not familiar with our collectible figurines
with their open expressions and smiling faces. Even The Antiques
Road Show has featured them. And all of our figurines, prints,
books or CDs are made in honor of the animals who keep alive our
ability to love, in a world where it is very difficult to do so.
Let's talk
about that world.
Today, we are facing a crumbling economy. Let me rephrase that.
We're not facing a crumbling economy; we're in it. Just about
everywhere we turn, something is falling apart. All of us know
people who have lost their jobs. All of us see businesses closing.
All of us see odd legislation being passed; things we never would
have considered before the day in September that changed it all.
There is an uneasiness around us. And it's growing. As we deal
with serious issues more and more, as our families fracture and
our natures become more hardened, our pets become a comfort to
us and sometimes the only way to keep our hearts open.
At a recent
high school appearance, I spoke in the auditorium about the many
things people can do with their lives; the many adventures they
can have in the creative fields I know something about. Publishing,
the record business, television, movies, horse racing, dog shows,
horse shows, the art world; surely I could open doors for them
in an exciting array of life's opportunities. But, looking around
that auditorium, I saw no spark of interest or imagination. As
we left that school, I said to my assistant, "Maxine, this
is the first time I can ever remember not even reaching one soul."
And I asked myself what kind of society would want zombie-like
citizens such as I had just seen. Was it an "inner city"
school I had just been to? Yes. Was it New York or Chicago or
Philadelphia? No. It was a school in the town of Lancaster, Pennsylvania;
in the county known for its industrious Pennsylvania Dutch; the
county in which I live. Were they Pennsylvania Dutch kids I was
speaking with? No, they were not. In much the same way that Hawaii
was invaded by outsiders and the values of its native population
changed forever, Lancaster County has changed and I doubt if there
was even one student of Pennsylvania Dutch background in that
school. This is serious. It's why teachers are giving up. And
it has happened in our lifetime!
The hopelessness
of those students mirrored the hopelessness of their homes. But
I knew these kids had pets at home, too. How did I know? I asked
them. In a show of hands, reluctant at first, I had found out
how many had horses, dogs, cats, fish and other pets. And I thought
to myself, this is the first thing they're responding to. In a
world where so much is out of their control, they don't feel like
they can reach the lofty things I'm talking about and maybe they
can't. But they can have an influence on their pets, and that's
a start.
Today, right
now, pets are more important than ever. In order to keep pets
and take care of them, we have to provide for them. To provide
for your pet, you have to buy food. Which is best, you wonder?
You must take
your pet to the veterinarian. Who is the best vet around, you
ask?
If you want
a litter of puppies, you must find a mate. Where do I find the
perfect match, you ask, searching out the local kennel club.
When the pups
are born, it's one of the most magical experiences of your life.
You'll always remember it. Now, you must raise them and for the
next couple of months you will do everything you can to raise
them well. You'll have paper work to fill out: registrations and
pedigrees to prepare and sign. You'll meet new people when families
come to you for the puppies you brought into the world. Everywhere
your pet takes you, it means dealing with other people, talking
things over and finding out what works for you. Before you know
it, you have a lifestyle and a reason to live.
That school of the zombies? It took me a while, but I finally
figured it out. They didn't want to see an author that day. They
wanted a ray of hope. I guess I should have brought a puppy with
me.
Next time,
I'll remember that.